tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6823681431938282960.post6418982734166035823..comments2023-10-22T14:46:45.656+01:00Comments on Mad Manic Mamas: Day 3 - A.D.Sazhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04433666175721615185noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6823681431938282960.post-60730270067586398312009-11-09T22:03:56.720+00:002009-11-09T22:03:56.720+00:00My heart buried that same emotion you write of abo...My heart buried that same emotion you write of above that I once felt as well. This post brought it back to the surface. How odd, it was also while he was having his hair cut. I saw in the reflection my boy. My boy. Now a young man. <br /><br />If I could support you with letters formed into words let this be it: (((hug)))immersionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10902151804646512039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6823681431938282960.post-56279468510975471892009-11-05T22:23:32.122+00:002009-11-05T22:23:32.122+00:00I am feeling your pain so much...the way you descr...I am feeling your pain so much...the way you describe those curls....:0(Chic Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01803588856685163353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6823681431938282960.post-67622608957643499902009-11-04T16:56:38.931+00:002009-11-04T16:56:38.931+00:00Thanks so much, Hostage, for sharing the pain. Li...Thanks so much, Hostage, for sharing the pain. Lightens my load to know that you and others understand. "These Day__"s are such a healing process.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6823681431938282960.post-56200670504916672512009-11-04T15:21:29.449+00:002009-11-04T15:21:29.449+00:00Not boring at all.
I cried with you over those cu...Not boring at all. <br />I cried with you over those curls. Literally felt tears sliding down my cheeks. <br />I came because FFF suggested these "Day_"s posts as not-to-miss reading, and she was right.<br />I'm in awe of how you are handling this! (I have a 21 year old that could've used some serious intervening I think and an 11,9,6 and 3 year old that I am taking your example on board for).imbeingheldhostagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00771374087307254969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6823681431938282960.post-10669179061487796592009-11-04T07:56:06.745+00:002009-11-04T07:56:06.745+00:00thanks...we want to le this series run uninterrupt...thanks...we want to le this series run uninterrupted... so have rescheduled other posts...Sazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04433666175721615185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6823681431938282960.post-84162796277247369822009-11-03T19:45:50.255+00:002009-11-03T19:45:50.255+00:00I am in awe of you all, all you mother's, and ...I am in awe of you all, all you mother's, and fathers of teenagers. I would be lost, I think.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6823681431938282960.post-51229166590800691422009-11-03T18:38:59.013+00:002009-11-03T18:38:59.013+00:00Well, we truly are going with our gut. We do beli...Well, we truly are going with our gut. We do believe that healing and creating healthy kiddos all starts with attachment. And in our house, active attachment is a regular part of what we do. So we are keeping the big goal - bringing him in to us - in mind as we make the little decisions. Helps us to focus us when we have so much to do and think about.<br /><br />I didn't do a day 6 because there was a post for that day already.<br /><br />Meanwhile, sharing this journey is such a help for me. I think that most parents don't want to talk about it - so it is a bit lonely. And of course, as you all fellow bloggers know, there is something about the process of writing that helps to make the messy stuff more clear.<br /><br />I hope that I'm not boring you all...I won't go on and on about it too much longer...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6823681431938282960.post-27272208811643099462009-11-03T17:04:55.813+00:002009-11-03T17:04:55.813+00:00I am engrossed in this, your life. How strong you ...I am engrossed in this, your life. How strong you are in admirable and awesome. Be strong, you and Hub. Your son will be so grateful one day.<br /><br />I wonder if you can clarify a little without giving us any personal detail. <br /><br />I'm guessing your hubby is the expert, so is this part of a learned system of rehab in the home? Or is this flying by the seat of your pants. I get the impression. You guys 'know' what you are doing here.<br /><br />btw I've deleted your email and wonder if you can check the dashboard day 6 is missing?!+*??Sazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04433666175721615185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6823681431938282960.post-70997127540497810552009-11-03T16:33:57.130+00:002009-11-03T16:33:57.130+00:00Keep strong, he needs you to be his mum, not his c...Keep strong, he needs you to be his mum, not his comrade, you are doing all the right things xbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17093353316834741465noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6823681431938282960.post-8570650885438397042009-11-03T02:00:46.864+00:002009-11-03T02:00:46.864+00:00You're his mom not his friend and you're d...You're his mom not his friend and you're doing the mom thing. I hope he knows this. My hearts aches for you both though. Kids do the stupidest things don't they? I'm sure he's embarrassed about all of this and it will be OK.Expat mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17798190669591053390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6823681431938282960.post-10674923835045130872009-11-03T01:56:49.455+00:002009-11-03T01:56:49.455+00:00I don't even know what to say. Except; you ar...I don't even know what to say. Except; you are doing the right things. You are being the mom. Making the hard decisions. Following through. Letting him know just how much you love him. That's the job; and you are doing it perfectly.Gigihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05467164195744234746noreply@blogger.com